As a child, I went on family holidays once a year to somewhere in the UK. Usually Devon or somewhere similar. We had a few trips on a ferry to France, but until I met Gary the furthest I’d been away from my home was Belgium, and that was on a school trip.
Gary and I visited New York within a year of meeting, for Valentine’s Day. My first taste of America and we were snowed-in in the most beautiful place to be snowed-in.
Gary was diagnosed with Crohn’s disease not long after, and what followed was years of surgery, recovery and coming to terms with a change of life as well as a change of pace for both of us. We put holidays on the back burner and trips consisted of Center Parcs breaks and days out in London, which were great, but didn’t get close to our previous trips.
We then jumped onto the property ladder with both feet and all of our savings. Any home owner knows that the first few years are hard. Belts are tightened and holidays are pretty much off the cards. But this year, Gary and I decided to throw caution to the wind. We’re not getting any younger, both of our health seems to have improved and plateaued and the urge to travel hasn’t been getting any weaker.
This year we have already been to Las Vegas, Gary to Rome and me to Ibiza. We’ve had some lovely weekends away, a trip to Liverpool and next…. we’ve booked to go back to New York!
Not only that, we fly on Christmas Day and will get to spend Christmas afternoon and evening there. We can’t wait to see the Christmas lights, the tree at Rockefeller Center, ice skate – everything! It’s been a long time since we were last there (our honeymoon 8 years ago!) and there have been so many changes to the city since then.
Being a rather Christmassey pair, we have pulled out all our New York movies, and begun watching them with a final flourish of our New York Christmas movies further into the season. Home Alone 2 will certainly feature more than once, Serendipity (and we intend on visiting this cafe during our stay!) and Scrooged are on the list.
This year has certainly been a year of holidays, especially after having not travelled for so many years, but we realised that experience is priceless. You can wait until you’re richer, healthier, have more time, but there will always be something that gets in the way. We’re grabbing the world with both hands this year. I can’t wait to experience the rest of it!